16 February 2010 ~ 8 Comments

Also, don’t call me “little girl”

I’ve gotten a lot of feedback on my last post, mostly from plurkers but also some inworld and in the comments. I didn’t realize it would be such a controversial topic and I’ve enjoyed hearing peoples thoughts on it.

There does seem to be a cultural difference between Sweden and America regarding this. My friends inform me that is in fact common to hear these terms from customer reps and the likes in America. The south seems especially good at this, I was informed. In Sweden however, you would be seriously reprimanded, maybe even lose your job if you called a customer “Hun”.

I really do enjoy a good discussion and I’m always ready to hear people out and change my opinion if I feel it needs revising. But then someone comes along that just proves my point. I got IM’d inworld by someone with no profile information what so ever, obviously an alt account.

Alt Person: Just a thought… today you bitched about someone calling you “honey” and how inappropriate and rude it was. Ever stop to think that flipping people off of a community blog and using the F word all the time is a little inappropriate?
Alt Person: Grow up, little girl.

First of all, yes, you’re right, it is rude to flip people off. It was kind of the point. Secondly, “F word all the time” is a bit of an exaggeration, don’t you think? This blog has one (1) count of “F-word” in it, and it’s in the context of “Effing Ace”, meaning positive context. If you’re that sensitive, I’m sorry, but I really can’t help you.

Third and last. Don’t IM me from an alt account and tell me to “grow up” and call me “little girl”. It just makes you look stupid and proves my point.

Rude Outfit:
Hair; [rQ] – Crush, PitchOnyx
Skin: Belleza – Jesse, Deep tan 4
Eyes: [CDD] – CyberTron Eyes (Open Portal)
Tee: + blacklisted +
i herd  Diva-T (yale)
Belt: Primitive Design – Studded belt (dark leather)
Pants: Deviance – Leather pants (black)

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15 February 2010 ~ 7 Comments

Don’t call me Hun.

A few days ago I contacted a shop owner on a costumer service note. I have never spoken to this person before. The chat that followed points to one of my Pet Peeve’s that are running rampant in Second Life.

Shop Owner: ok honey gonna send that to you right now
Shop Owner: ok hun sent

Imagine if this was real life. I go to the customer desk at a store and ask for help. No rep in the world would dream of calling me “Hun” in that situation. It’s rude and condescending, not to mention totally inappropriate. Yet, in SL, it seems to be the norm.

If you don’t know me you are not allowed to call me Hun, Honey, Baby, Darling, Doll, Sweetheart or any other moronic nick name you can dream up.

My name is Kissowa. Don’t call me Hun.

Eff Off Outfit;
Hair; [rQ] – Crush, PitchOnyx
Skin: Belleza – Jesse, Deep tan 4
Eyes: [CDD] – CyberTron Eyes (Open Portal)
Tee: + blacklisted + -  i might Diva-T (rosewood)
Pose: [LAP] – Flip Off

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